The 4 C's of What to Do and Not to Do

The 4 C’s of What to Do and Not to Do

November 3, 2016

The 4 C’s of What to Do and Not to Do

Posted by Polly Castor on November 3, 2016 in Hope, Ideas, Spirituality

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What to do and not to do, Dos and don'ts

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Don’t:

Criticize

Condemn

Compare

Complain

Instead, cultivate:

Compassion

Clarity

Conviction

Courage

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Tags:advice, Mindfulness, Release, Spiritual Healing

About Polly Castor

I work to amplify good wherever I find it. I love color, texture, beauty, great ideas, nature, metaphor, deliciousness, genuine spirituality, and exploring new territory. I encourage authenticity, nurture creativity, champion sustainability, promote peace, and hope to foster a new renaissance where we all are free to be our most fulfilled, multifaceted, and terrific selves. Read more here.

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As usual, I love your blog. Thanks for including me.

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I wanted you to know that I found the time I spent on your blog to be relaxing, refreshing, inspiring, and totally enjoyable.

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A powerful message. Thank you for getting it out there.

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Perspective is everything – and choosing a liberating one blesses everyone, as you point out!

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My mother adores your blog and speaks to me often about what recent nugget you shared which she thought was wonderful!

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I think one reason I enjoy your blog is that you Stand Forth In All Your God-given Glory, expressing everything Good!

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I love your website, messages, poems and art. Thank you for the blessing of community that you provide.

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The Brussels sprouts were an exceptionally BIG hit here…. could you direct me to more literature on spiritual healing?

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Graciously and lovingly spoken, like a true friend to all. Thank you for your blog Polly.

So beautiful and I have shared it with so many others. Thank you!

Polly, what amazing and timely insight in these wise words! Thanks for sharing this wisdom.

Your abstracts are interesting and you have a unique style that is all your own. Original, demonstrating individuality and confidence! I see joy and love expressed.

Your poem feels like a lesson, a treatment, and a love letter all rolled into one perfect package.
Thank you, Polly.

I really enjoyed this book, thanks for recommending it.

Your eyes are keen and your photographs dynamic.

Thank you for bringing your hydrangeas into my home via the internet. Other flowers are lovely too, but hydrangeas are SPECIAL.

You show us how God’s love shines in all things. You are a blessing!

Polly….I’m happier because of you; I sure do thank you.

Putting the art of poetry, photography and painting into your hands is God’s gift to us who get to read it and see it. Thanks.

Wow, super powerful and definitely what I needed to hear today.

What an incredible blessing and inspiration you are. Thank you so much for your beautiful heart!

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Your blog is full of the wonderful, multilayered colors and textures that you play with, and share so unselfishly with the world.

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That definitely sounds like a book I’d like to read! Thanks Polly!

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I recently I recommended your blog to a friend saying, “She’s like a dear friend, she just doesn’t know me.” Thank you for all the delight you add to my days!

This is one of the BEST explanations of one’s understanding of God I have seen in a long time. The image paired with the text was spot on!

Thanks, Polly! Your zest for the good things in life makes me feel happy too!

AUDACIOUSLY GORGEOUS!!!!! (:

Thank you for sharing this quote. It is very appropriate for our times. A beautiful wake up call to change our thinking and focus on what is real and true.

Polly, I needed you today and there you were and it was enough. Thank you for being a motivator.

I have to tell you that your spiritual to-do list was the springboard for a great talk with my older daughter. We are going to check on each other, and progress.

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Love the poem so so much and the first painting with the trees is INCREDIBLE!!

Illuminating thoughts, thank you for sharing them. Very clear.

Thank you Polly for this article on supply! I cherish the healing thoughts therein very much, and they are very helpful.

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Providing us with wonderful refreshment, enlightenment, peace, encouragement, joy,
and a whole lot more. Thanks, Polly!

The Spirit at work is so well described here. In between the lines I read that
our only true peace is in pleasing Our Creator! Thank you deeply, Polly!

Thank you for using this platform to share these references for listening & learning. Now the work required to make a lasting change is up to each of us! ❤️

I’m grateful for you opening my eyes to the wonders that surround us.

Really enjoyed your poem on Animal magnetism. Very clear truths. Thank you. Your vibrant art work is superb.

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You inspire goodness, wholeness, contentedness and joy.

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I read and feel the security of the hearth and home. Many thanks…

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Thank you Polly.
I will continue to benefit…

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Thank you for your efforts. I look forward to your positive thoughts and love.

I never before found computers this beautiful….

Thank you for sharing this.
Strange, nothing surprising here.
You are who you are.

I appreciate your blog. It’s a breath of fresh air, beauty, and innovative thinking!

This is a beautiful summary and reminder of how we can both individually and collectively dissolve the powerless, baseless lies with Truth. Thank you, Polly!!

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Thank you Polly for your radiant joy and embrace of each of us, wrapping us in your color and beauty of Soul.

Yes, lots of good flavor triggers in there. I printed it out and will try it. Thanks so much!

I LOVE THIS BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes indeed! You are a shining light and you are definitely using all your wonderful talents

Your art is thrilling.

Your blogs are a delight.

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You brighten my life with your thoughts, views, words, pictures….

Thanks for sharing from the seat of your soul with generosity and openness.

You are such a gem Polly- it is an incredible blessing to daily read your blog!

Thank you sincerely for your joyful out-pouring of love, light, color, comforting, inspiring words…

Love all you do and express. You’re an amazing role model!!

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You are doing so wonderfully at praising God with your talents.

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This blog deeply resonates while being beautiful, delicious, inspiring, and fun. Not easy to do!

Your multiple images and vocabulary choices give energy and renewed resolve to flagging spirits. Thank you for sharing.

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How blessed we are to have someone like you on this Earth.

Polly, your wonderful blog is doing more than its bit in this dreadful time. Thanks, and keep on keeping on!

Beautifully written, Polly … captures my sentiments exactly.❤️

Thank you for passing along such wise words.

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Thank you for the constant good thoughts and beautiful expressions of love and joy that you share on your blog.

Wow…you have made carrots sexy!

You capture so vividly the beauty of nature. Thank you for bringing such beauty into my every day.

Quite unforgettable. You truly have a way with words: warm; strong; inviting; enlightening; so substantive, and more.

Thank you for your burst of sunshine reflected in your positivity this morning… I look forward to your blogs.

The last day of the month on your blog is always a BIG treat . . . This morning I went from fasting to feasting . . .

Beautiful and profoundly perfect for pandemic season, your poem empowers hope for what’s next. I plan to read it at Sunday Devotional. Thank you!

Thank you for the joy you share. I look forward to reading your posts!

Thanks for the nudge!

You continue to inspire, impress, and
amaze me, Polly.

When I open my email in the morning I read all the have-to emails first; I save yours to read as dessert. Thanks, Polly!

This is absolutely wonderful and so helpful.

Thank you dear Polly!

Oh my goodness Polly, this is absolutely magnificent and reaches so far deep into my soul.

Grace is a beautiful quality and you exude it in spades – thanks so much for all you do and are! You are a treasure!

I want to express my gratitude to you for such a well thought out essay. I found it quite enriching and resonate with those true answers.

I truly love and am inspired by your blog, including capturing the beauty of life in the moment, teaching by example, taking time with children, and spirituality.

Polly your blog is simply a marvelously enriching, thought provoking part of the daily wonders of life! I give thanks for you and the blog!

I just want to say that I have really been enjoying your blog! It gives me hope for the world…

Your site is bolstering my creative thoughts. I need to put them into action.

I am so totally impressed with your photography, poetry, and painting. Your talent is incredible!!!

Well said Polly!

Life is so exciting we should limit ourselves less!

Let’s all have a productive day and be joyful!

This blog is upbeat, progressive, sincere, colorful, metaphoric, and exploratory. Such a rich feast!

Polly, I just love your spirit, innovativeness, receptivity to beauty and to God’s goodness expressed. Thank you for your blog.

I so enjoyed your trip blog. The outstanding photos and the amazing narratives made me feel I was on vacation for a few minutes each day.

These are awesome. You have such a gift for photography…and for pastels…and for cooking…and for finding interesting books…and, and, and. Where does it end?

I made your fabulous Fish Tacos and they were BEYOND delicious!!

You are … just plain wonderful, Polly! Your blog is bursting with poetry, art, writings, love of God, family, friends, all things great and wonderful and good!

This is absolutely beautiful and so incredibly helpful and inspiring! Thank you so much! ❤️

Gorgeous new work. I love the vitality of the city scenes and vibrant color palette.

This poem is what I needed to further focus on moving out of the fear of COVID.❤️

Thank you for your efforts. I look forward to your positive thoughts and love.

Helen Frankenthaler’s works were interesting, but I like your abstracts better.

Your reading challenge has inspired me and given me permission to read again, as previously I had just fitted reading round everything else. Now it is a legitimate activity in my life and I am enjoying it immensely!

Thank you for your transparency of love, your generous sharing of what you are pondering and doing.

Wow, you outdid yourself this month with your Bits and Clips. It was a wonderful mix of beauty, humor, and thoughtfulness.

What a breath of fresh air!! Thank you for your honesty, integrity and willingness to speak out for Truth and Justice!!!

Way to go on your artistic journey. You show great courage, humility, and such support for everyone around you.

Once again, you have come through for us with such clear and coherent thinking and put into words the feelings in our hearts.

Butter! Lemon! Garlic!

It’s like a prayer!!!

I always appreciate your reviews. Our fave film in 2019 was The Green Book – which we watched following your recommendation.

Love your blog’s colour and joyfulness and the inspiring leads, Polly. Easy to see why you are much loved. Thank you.

Very helpful in these seemingly uncertain times. I found a couple of specific ideas expressed here that apply to a specific situation in my life. Thank you!

This is absolutely magnificent. Bless your precious and beautiful soul for sharing this.

I have tremendous admiration for your strength, your depth, your compassion, your passion and your love. You are a woman deeply filled to the brim…

I get so happy when I see your paintings. I really do. They bring me such joy. I feel your heart when I see them.

I love that you live such an active life, have so many interests, and share your insights with me. Your blog is like a conversation with a dear friend.

Polly lets her spirituality into her art as you can see in the many abstract paintings she creates. We were wowed by her ability and her encouragement of others to express themselves artistically.

You are my favorite artist. I just have to say it. Your paintings make me so happy.

I loved this book, Polly. Thank you so much for the recommendation.

I have so enjoyed your recent posts– about your garden, your reflections about parenting, your vibrant artwork– so many wonderful expressions of Spirit.

Thank you Polly!! This has needed to be said for a while!

Thank you so much for this wonderful insight! You put into words what I have been grappling with for a long time. This is just what I needed today.

Hi Polly, loved this poem. It radiates hope and feeling of calmness. I am glad I came across these beautiful words. Keep posting similar reads and spreading positivity.

Thank you for Saying So Well What Needs To Be SAID!

Hoping others can/will read this…

Without a doubt my life has been enriched and uplifted by my acquaintance with you through your blogs. Every day I look for the interesting ideas you amplify and the lovely arts you share with us. I am never disappointed.

How blessed we are to have someone like you on this Earth.

Your inspiration and love of nature is appreciated!

I feel such gratitude for the beautiful way in which you express God. Thanks for blessing my life and being such a shining light in the world!

I look forward to your messages each day, like a delightful gift to unwrap.

Your photos have opened my eyes to the beauty surrounding us everywhere.

Polly always captures the balance between what I can do, and all the miracles I am given.

Your work is always spirited and inspirational.

Thank you for bringing to light and sharing an undeniably important part of the one stupendous whole we all share…the countless ways beyond sight, and not to be missed, always at hand.

I have just started this book and am really loving it! Thank you so much for recommending it.

Thank you for your commitment to reality and our true nature!

Your blog is uplifting and enlightening, and seems to speak to me just when I need it most.

I did your 52 books challenge, and loved the structure that it provided to my selections. Doing it again this year too!

Thanks, Polly, for listening so carefully and sharing so selflessly.

I am simply amazed at the wealth of beauty, soul, and experience. Love it. Love you! Thank You for sharing your innermost so openly.

Thank you Polly for sharing those wise words! I heartily agree with them all now I have a bigger perspective on life.

I LOVE YOU!!

You amuse-inspire-edify-entertain-inform-uplift-enhance-educate-color!-…my days!

Yes, healing does happen when we deeply and humbly pray. Thanks for keeping that idea alive.

Oh how I love this! Thank you, thank you!

Polly Castor

Fostering a new renaissance through creativity, authenticity, spirituality, and art

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Don’t:

Instead, cultivate:

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